Escorting, Prostitution and Everyday Relationships
Friday, February 15th, 2008A lot of people believe that if a person is paying money for having a good company, for relaxing, for luxurious, unforgettable sexual moments – it’s prostitution. I absolutely disagree with this statement and I want you to follow my point of view. Let’s scrutinize a bit into it.
There are a lot of cases where people spend money to get sex that is not prostitution. For example, if a man buys a woman flowers and chocolates in hopes that she will communicate with him, or a woman cooks dinner for a man hoping for great sexual contact, is it prostitution? The answer is simple – no. Even if a man gives an escort money as a present because he is expecting or hoping for sexual contact in exchange for the gift, that’s not prostitution. So there are many cases where people are paid money for attention and for sex, and it can’t be prostitution.
My favourite example is movies. We have all seen movies involving love making on the screen. They involve simulated sex. Although much of the sex is simulated sex, often the scene involves the licking of tits, kissing of the thighs and navels, back, faces get red, nipples become erect and so on. These sexual, erotic acts are real and these people are doing it for money (it’s understandable). Is this prostitution? No! Is this sex for money? Yes it is. But, they’re making a movie. The conclusion is - it is legal to have sex for money in some contexts, in this case in the context of making a great, interesting and thrilling movie.
One more – strip dancers. A man goes into a strip bar and sits down near the stage. He takes money from his pocket and shows to a strip escort. The female dancer sees the money and moves right in front of him. She dances next to him, shakes her breasts, spreads her legs, shows him her ass and so on. Then he gives money her and go out. In a few moments she repeats the performance for the next man with money. Is this prostitution? No. Is it sexual activity for money? Yes it is.
Everyday situation - a man and a woman are dating. These people are good friends, great partners, attractive lovers and so on. They go shopping and she sees something she really wants, desires. A man agrees to buy this item for her, but asks if he buys this for her if she’ll have sex with him. She agrees. Is that prostitution? No. Is it sex for money? Yes it is. But it’s in the context of a relationship.
The same thing with escort services. Escort services in London and other countries (escorts agencies, directories, independent companions) are not prostitution businesses because escort services are not selling sexual contact for money. Escort services provide high class female companions (or male) for a variety of purposes and occasions. These purposes include dating, companionship, intelligent conversation, kissing, touching, massage, someone to talk to, discussing problems, ideas, a shoulder to cry on, someone to be with, someone to train you about how to be a real gentleman with the right woman. There are a lot of occasions that escort services cover and they’re legal services in most of the cases.


